So, I looked in my fridge this morning and pulled out a few things I knew would work, and some I thought might. I also brought out a cookie cutter for her sandwich. This is the result:
It is a peanut butter and raspberry jam sandwich on whole wheat bread (cut in a flower shape, the dog ate the rest of it), two strawberries dipped in sugar, half a dozen raspberries, pretzel Goldfish, baby carrots, grape tomatoes and ranch dressing, and roast chicken-light cream cheese-pickle roll ups. She ate a little of everything, but she didn't like the chicken-cream cheese-pickle wraps. I may not do this every day, but I know she was thrilled with her "pretty" lunch. She had to show it to everyone. :)